James J. ‘Reb’ Rebeor, 63

OSWEGO, NY – James J. “Reb” Rebeor, 63, a resident of West Fifth Street Road in the Town of Oswego passed away on Saturday May 7, 2011, at his home surrounded by his loved ones after a courageous battle with cancer.

Born in Oswego on Sept. 20, 1947, he was the son of the late Maurice and Mary (Murray) Rebeor.

James J. ‘Reb’ Rebeor
James J. ‘Reb’ Rebeor

Mr. Rebeor traveled throughout the United States in his younger days, living in Florida, Texas and California.

He worked in the construction trades, often as a painter and carpenter.

He returned to Minetto in his later years to care for his mother.

Reb would be the first to join in a party and always with a good story to tell about the experiences of his life; everyone liked him.

He was loyal, trusted and cared deeply about his friends and family.

In a firm but gentle voice when needed, he would not hesitate to ask, “Minguia, what were you thinking?”

After leaving Oswego High School in 1966, Mr. Rebeor voluntarily joined the U.S. Navy – at a time when men were being drafted to fight in the Vietnam War.

He served aboard the U.S.S. Cony from June 1968 until assigned to decommission the U.S.S. Topeka in 1969.

He finished his tour aboard the U.S.S. Hugh Purvis and was honorably discharged in November 1969.

He was awarded the National Defense Service Medal.

Mr. Rebeor enjoyed repairing and refinishing old furniture in his workshop.

He was a baseball and basketball fan having played both as a young man.

He liked to golf, fish and enjoyed vegetable gardening.

Surviving are his longtime companion, Betty Joyce-Phillips of the Town of Oswego; a daughter, Staci (Nicolas) Formaggia of Massachusetts; a sister, Connie (John) Cosemento of Oswego; stepchildren,  Lisa Hibbert, Stephen Phillips and Patience Boswell; a sister-in-law, Phyllis Rebeor; and grandsons Nathaniel Hibbert and Cameron Boswell.

Other surviving family members include his nieces, Robyn Rebeor-Harper, Janet Rebeor-Dexter, Danielle (Cosemento) Skotnicki and Nicole (Cosemento) LaSpisa; nephews, James, Randy and Craig Rebeor; along with several great-nieces and great-nephews.

He was predeceased by his brother, David Rebeor, in 1997.

During Reb’s last days, his friend the Rev. Francis Pompei celebrated the sacrament of anointing the sick and his sister, Connie Cosmento, and Jim Latulip offered Holy Communion.

A memorial mass will be held on May 16 at 11 a.m. from St. Mary’s Catholic Church.

There are no calling hours.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations be made to Oswego County Hospice, PO Box 102, Oswego, NY 13126.

The family wishes to thank the doctors and staff at the Syracuse VA Medical Center and for the care provided by Oswego County Hospice.

Arrangements are in care of the Dowdle Funeral Home.