Local Woman Hopes To Pass On ‘Life-Changing Instrument’

OSWEGO – It began in July 1990 with a broken-down 1982 Dodge 400 in the parking lot of the former P&C grocery store at the east end of the JC Penny’s Plaza in Oswego. It continued with a specially-equipped 2017 Chevy Silverado.

Specially-equipped truck looking for the right buyer

Scriba resident Karen Butchko had relocated from New Jersey in 1978 and had recently moved to the Oswego area.

Don Nichols was the mechanic who responded to her distress call that day.

A romance grew from that chance meeting.

He proposed on Christmas Day 1995.

The couple exchanged wedding vows in the P&C parking lot on June 1, 1996.

“Don started having medical issues in 2013,” Karen said. “After a stay at the hospital, with a heart arrhythmia and later septicemia – both almost ending his life – he was also diagnosed with brain atrophy.”

“’Well, that is just a part of getting old,’ we were told. ‘We all get brain atrophy as we age,’” she told Oswego County Today.

However, by 2015, Don was no longer able to write his name.

There was confusion about times and dates, Karen said, adding, “It was all just silly at the time; never imagining what would be next.”

What was next was a series of health issues.

Don began falling.

“We tried physical therapy. But, after several more falls, Don became wheelchair-bound,” she said

Karen would transfer him from his wheelchair to the bed or chair and even in and out of the car in order to get him to and from his many doctor appointments.

“That was all we could do, until the day I was unable to move him on my own,” she said.

Eventually, Don could no longer talk. It started with slurred speech.

“I learned to understand his words and would interpret to others who tried to speak to him (family members, friends and most importantly doctors),” Karen said.

“Although we laughed every day as I told him stories or sang to him or danced in his wheelchair – we were both being held hostage by this thing now called ‘dementia,’” Karen said.

Being in public transportation (a school bus driver for a local district), Karen said she knew “there was hope for us.”

“In 2017, I found our lifeline to the world. This truck (with wheelchair lift) gave us the ability to come and go as we pleased; going to the doctor, the grocery store or even a walk in the park with our dog,” she said.

In summer, they found all the ice cream stands, one by one, on their way home from appointments.

“We always got the smallest size dish, but it was usually melted before we could finish it,” Karen said.

“We loved this truck and it truly helped us through the most difficult time in our lives,” she added. “We knew we would eventually come to the end of ‘our rainbow’ and the truck would need to be a life-changing instrument in someone else’s life.”

Don died January 22, 2019, in Oswego Hospital. He was 78 years old.

Karen stopped driving the truck to avoid the chance of damage throughout the rest of the Oswego winter and now with less than 5,000 miles on the odometer, the truck has a long life ahead of it.

The truck is at Burritts Auto on Route 104 in Oswego. Burritts has listed it on two websites, their own and the GMC auction website.

“I don’t think the truck is getting the attention it needs or deserves,” she said. “Dealerships have thousands of vehicles for sale; they don’t have time to concentrate on just one.”

Her plan is to sell the Silverado and satisfy the loan.

I won’t make any money on the sale, whether it is auctioned or sold to a private buyer,” she explained.

“This life-altering vehicle can mean hope and freedom to a new family isolated or trapped by their health issues,” she added.

Karen said she hopes “to reach someone, or someone who knows someone, who needs to get back out into the world and can’t because of their disability.”

“I am hoping this article gets people talking and the one person who is looking to regain their freedom can get back out in the world and eat at the ice cream stand anytime, anywhere,” she said.

6 Comments

  1. Karen..you truly are an angel..I just lost my daughter in September to a tragic loss then early March my dad to alzimer..I’m a disabled marine..so I am going to find someone to take care of that truck..I give you all the blessings a person can handle…may God bless you and your family..thank you for your dedication to help someone else..God bless…
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  2. Karen that is so nice about the truck..I’m a single mom ..my son ed is in a wheelchair…we take a bus to doctor appointments ex.

  3. Karen the previous tweet is from my sister as it was my brother too . I was with him when he dropped dead right in front of me . I began CPR immediately which sustained him until the ambulance arrived but they did have to remove both legs above the knees and now he finds little or no financial help in getting what he needs to get around. I am trying to help him by buying a vehicle for him that would get him out and around. Thank You, Steve

  4. Karen my phone number is(315) 593-7327 if you want to discuss this with me . Thank You, Steve Tyler

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