OSWEGO – David J. Wahrendorf, 68, of Oswego, died peacefully at home surrounded by family on January 13, 2021.
Born on July 19, 1952, Dave was one of five children born to the late Clifford and Virginia (Sereno) Wahrendorf.
He attended Oswego High School and graduated in 1970. In January of 1974, he joined his father and brother in the Oswego Fire Department. On June 25, 1977, he married the love of his life, Mary Kathleen “Kathy” White. After 25 years of service, Dave retired from the fire service in 1999. Shortly after his retirement he began a second career at American Airlines at Hancock Airport, where he was employed for 11 years.
In addition to his professional careers, Dave and his wife Kathy had many business ventures. Most notably was Wahrendorf’s diner located on Bridge Street in Oswego, which was a family business. Pies were baked daily by his mother-in-law Veronica White and his mother Virginia, and often you would find Dave himself at the grill cooking. His other businesses included Ryan’s Café in Fulton and the Patch in Oswego, where Dave and Kathy hosted great local musicians and met many of their closest friends.
Dave enjoyed playing basketball from a very young age until knee surgeries ended his adult city league career. He also loved watching the Oswego State Men’s Basketball team with his wife and family. Dave’s favorite sport to watch was boxing, and he made annual trips to the hall of fame in Verona, NY. Dave found a great deal of strength through his illness by looking to his idol, boxer Muhammad Ali.
Dave is survived by his wife of 43 years, Kathy (White) Wahrendorf; his three children Emily Wahrendorf, David Wahrendorf, and Vanessa Wahrendorf; his three brothers Clifford (Bonnie) Wahrendorf, Donald (Laurie) Wahrendorf and Brad Wahrendorf, and a sister Carol (Phillip) Carroll; lastly by his five grandchildren who were the light of his life – Josselyn, Miley, Callisandra, Kelsey and Audrianna. Dave leaves behind several nieces and nephews, as well as other close family members.
Calling hours will be held from 2-5 p.m. on Monday, January 18, at Nelson Funeral Home. Social distancing and masks will be required.
A Catholic Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, January 19 at St. Mary’s Church, Oswego. Those wishing to attend may register at the door. Burial will follow at St. Peter’s Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Brain Tumor Association. Arrangements are in care of Nelson Funeral Home.

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Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I was in your restaurant. eating lunch with a friend the day my youngest daughter was born, February 26,1982. I will always remember your “most loved” restaurant and that significant day in my life. Love and prayers to you Kathy and your family. Mary Louise Segatol-Islami
Thoughts and Prayers to the Family, Dave was a great guy and a lot fun to b around always up beat and full of entertainment.
Kathy and Family,
Bob and I are so very sorry to hear the loss of Dave ,he was a great friend always had a friendly HI whenever I saw him I will always remember the times i visited the many businesses both you and Dave had together Please know you all are in my prayers